મારે જીવું છે…….પણ કેમ?
જીવન માં જીવા માટે એક સામાન્ય વસ્તુ,વ્યકતિ અથવા કંઈક એવું કે જે આપણે જીવા માટે પ્રેરણા સ્ત્રોત હોઈ.આ વાર્ત શું સંપૂર્ણં રીતે સાચી છે?
આવડી મોટી દુનિયા માં લોકો ને મરવું કેમ હોઈ છે એજ ખબર નહિ પડતી.આ જીંદગી માં આવ્યા છીએ તો દુઃખ અને સુખ તો આવાનું જ છે.મારા મમ્મી એવું કેતા હોઈ છે મને કે અર્જુન,
“દુઃખ અને સુખ કોઈ દિવસ કહીને નહિ આવતું નથી તે હંમેશા જો અજાણ્યા થઇ ને આવે તો જ સારું”
જો દુઃખ આવાનું છે એ માણસ ને ખબર પડી જાય તો એ સુખ લેવા ભાગે અને જો સુખ આવાનું છે એવું ખબર પડે તો એ હંમેશા તેણી પાસે સુખ રે એની જખના કરવા લાગે એટલે હંમેશા દુઃખ અને સુખ કીધા વગર જ આવે તોજ સારું છે.
આ જગત માં એવો કોઈ વ્યકતિ નથી કે જેને દુઃખ નથી પણ દરેક વાર્ત ની જેમ દુઃખ માંથી કઈ રીતના બાર આવું એ આવડવું જોઈએ તો જ એ જીવન જીવાની મજા આવે.આમારા વતર્ન માં કહેવત છે કે સુખ માં છલકાવું નહિ,અને દુઃખ માં મુંઝાવું નહિ જે થાઈ છે એ સારા માટે થાઈ છે એવું સમજી ને દરેક વસ્તુ સ્વીકારી લેવી જોઈએ.જે છે એમાં ખુશી માનવી એજ આપણી ખુશી નું કારણ બંને છે.આ દુનિયા માં એવું કોઈ નથી કે જેને દુઃખ જોયું ના હોઈ પણ જે આ દુઃખ ને રાજી ખુશી થી ગળે લગાડી દે છે એ હંમેશા વિશ્વ વિજેતા બંને છે એને જ આ દુનિયા સલામ કરે છે અને જયારે એ આ દુનિયા ને વિદાઈ લે છે ત્યારે એની પાછળ જ લોકો આંસુ અને ઊંચી પ્રતિમા બનાવે છે.
તો હવે આ નિર્ણય તમારો છે કે જે થયું એને ત્યાંજ મૂકી ને આગળ વધવું કે ત્યાં જ રહીને આખી જીંદગી આપણે આપણી જાતને જ પાછી પાડવી અને પસ્તાવો કરવો.આ જીવન માં હંમેશા આગળ વધવું આપણી સફળતા છે ,ગુજરાત માં એવું કહેવામાં આવે છે કે જયારે કોઈ વ્યકતિ મરણ સયા પર પડયો હોઈ ને ત્યારે એને એની આખી જીંદગી એક પડદા પર ચાલે છે આ પડદો તમને સાચું અને ખોટું નહિ પણ તમે કેવું જીવન જીવ્યા એ બતાવે છે.હવે નિર્ણય તમારો હોવો જોઈએ કે તમારે જીવન જીવા માટે સૌથી ઊંચુંકારણ શું હોવું જોઈએ. કારણ એવું પસંદ કરજો કે યમદૂત પણ તમને જોવે ને ત્યારે તમને કે “ના તારા જેવી તો મેં કોઈ ની જીંદગી નથી જોઈ બવજ સરસ અને સારી જીંદગી જીવી તે…. તો જીંદગી તમે તમારા હિસાબ થી જીવો અને આનંદ માનો…ખરેખર માજા આવશે.
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